eHarmony Update #3
Now, I am having fun. The numbers are in. For my one month anniversary I have 93 matches of which 77 are closed. I took a couple of new pictures of myself and apparently they are good. I haven't been closed by anyone since. I've had to close them out myself. I learned from another site that if you have too many on your waiting list, eHarmony is less willing to give you new matches. Being that a great bulk, perhaps 50%, are from non-subscribers, I just chucked half of my matches that didn't respond to me after a week. Remember, I send out communication to just about everyone I am matched up with.Either I am very appealing or my goal for this 6 month experiment is too low. I just came back from my 3rd date and this girl actually shows promise. I don't want to get ahead of myself and say any more than that. The first girl didn't seem interested in a relationship. There wasn't a connection with the second girl. The third girl, I asked out again. Anyway, I'm extremely happy with my results being that I am ahead of the game already. Actually, I shouldn't call it a game. I hate that term for dating. I'm still not too sure that I would meet my soul mate doing this but I sure am having a blast participating.
